The Key Advice To Young Women Who Seek Marriage.

Am speaking from the point of a man who plays a critical role in what women need, which is marriage. I once had a female friend from the early days to the final year of my University education. She was such a lovely young woman. I loved sharing my ideas and circumstances with her. She was also always there to listen to me and help me find solutions and make decisions.

I must say, she was the lady who really gained my respect and trust. She was very different with the way she dressed and how she communicated with me. She dressed decently without exposing some parts of her body and spoke gracefully with me. We were very close for about three to four years. She witnessed a radical transformation in my life.

The crux of my meeting with this virtuous young woman was relationship and even if, everything goes on perfectly to marry her after we attained our degree from the university. This girl friend never had sex nor even allowed me kiss her within those years. There were opportunities I tried and tried but this young lady never gave in for me to enjoy this pleasure. I felt bad at times when my friends asked me if I had been able to hit the mark. Then the answer was obviously no!

Honestly, this friend of mine because of the image she created to me during those years. I will say any man who will marry her have married a true, virtuous marriage material.

Why? Because, she resisted me from having sex with her, but all a while, supported me, made room for my company and did what every woman will do for her man. This I will say, have made me speak about her in this piece.

How will you answer this my reader? What is the essence in it if you want to pay for something you cherish and fortunately, you had this valuable thing on a silver platter? You will not value this item anymore, right?

This replicates itself when you let the guy you want to marry have sex with you before the marriage ceremony. Even though, we men will love to have it, create a room where we can be with you but not to have the valuable thing. Being there for us, discussing and planning the future, taking actions towards the plans that will help both of us enjoy the future we anticipate.

I will say, this guy will respect you (but some men might not let you know), it builds trust and offers a very solid foundation for the relationship or marriage to thrive.

I will say premarital sex have made room for the many street children, the many divorces crippling our marriages and other social problems.

If you are a young woman who really wants to get married to a man, never commit such lawless and uncompromising mistake, because it will end you up with a broken heart, feeling cheated and wondering why every guy comes into your life and leaves you. You might then attribute it to spiritual or superstitious beliefs, which might be wrong.

Hold on to your precious equity until you have that precious gem on your finger and your precious man will adore, respect, appreciate and honour you as the God - sent gift to him.

This is my advice to you my female reader. I know if we get more of such ladies for marriage, myself and other men who want virtuous young women will appreciate this piece and it will also bring a social change into my community and the world as a whole.

I dedicate this article to that my girl friend and to all young women who will stand on their grind and keep themselves into their marriage. May God bless them and their marriages.

Am most grateful for your time and I believe if you apply what you have learnt here, you will see and manifest all and even more as I have mentioned here. Cheers and have a blessed day.

Thank you!

The Heart Of the Little Girl (True Story)

It was a hot sunny Sunday afternoon after I had a nap. I stood in front of our mart and was thinking where the wind comes from, as it blows through the leaves of the trees in various directions and we feeling it around our succulent bodies. It left me pondering while I sit in front of the mart admiring nature.

In some few minutes, I saw these two little girls around three years old walking together, chatting and living in their own world. There was one among them I knew. She was called Perpetual. Her mother is a fruits seller just opposite our mart. Her mother sells fruits like apples, pineapples, watermelons, oranges and bananas.

Suddenly, I heard this little girl heartily crying and heading to her mothers’ place without her friend. After a while, I saw Perpetual happily running towards the direction her friend went with two bananas in her hand. 

She even stumbled but didn't fall, one of the bananas she was holding fell because the rate at which she was running to catch up with her friend was high.

I shouted at her to take her time, her mother busted out that, the reason Perpetual was running was that, she was running to catch up with her friend and give her one of the bananas so that they could enjoy together.

I thought about the gesture of this little girl and felt fascinated to share with you my reader. I will ask you my reader, what do you make of this act Perpetual exhibited?

This little girl has seen the need to share what she had with her friend. The action Perpetual exhibited speaks a lot to me and reminds me of the golden rule ‘do unto others what you want others to do unto you'. How many times have you seen a friend whose shoes were worn out and you gave him or her one of your shoes? 

When you see a friend whose clothes are tattered, what then comes into your mind?

The act of benignity of this little girl serves to me as a wake up call to share what I have, to be kind to others and as we share or give unto humanity. We share be replenished in a thousand fold. May this little girl’s gesture remind you whenever you find yourself in such situation. Let’s give and it share always be given unto us. Lets always be guided by this principle and we will live a life worth remembering.

I am most grateful to have you spend your time reading this article, let’s keep a positive mental attitude and it’s my prayer everything works together for our good.

Thank you and let’s meet here again on this blog. Have a blessed day!