POWER OF APPRECIATION
As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. ~ John F. Kennedy
Some months ago as I could remember, we went for model UN conference in the capital of Ghana, Accra. I was then a delegate and it was such a wonderful event. There was a hindsight which was really fascinating to me. There was a key note speaker for the conference during our training session prior to the main setting.
He was in an African print, wearing a plain glass and with a pot belly. He was of a high rank in an organization. It was all quite when he took the stage and first greeted in three different languages. The atmosphere was warm because some of the fans in the room was not working.
He really gave us a detailed information about the UN and his office, what the youth can do to create positive change and be an active citizen.
I was indeed elated after his speech and something told me to speak to the man. I delayed a bit and suddenly I heard he was to leave after the question and answer time due to his busy schedules.
After about three delegates had poked questions and he had done his best answering, I stood up gently and got the microphone. Before I spoke, I thought to myself How would I have felt after this speech?
I then first mentioned my name and acknowledged him for his presence at the event was very laudable and also commended him on his thought-provoking speech.
Before I asked my question, I could see how his face beamed with a heartwarming smile and I could see his eyes brightened through his plain glasses. It was contagious; I also found myself smiling and asked my question. Before he answered he said “thank you Patrick”!
How does it feel if you post something and nobody comments even though he is not obliged to do so! It can be really painful and you might ask yourself why?
I have come to learn that, as humans as we are, each and everyone will one way or other need to be appreciated to make him delighted.
Appreciation brings motivation and encouragement. Send the chef a message that his food was superb, if it really is! Send that message to the friend, who extended a helping hand, say thank you first thing when you woke up, give that pat at the child’s shoulder, say thank you if he opens the door for you, acknowledge that host for his reception, kiss and hug after she had finished with the chores.
We can never do without appreciation if we really want to see the happier side of life. Have the attitude of gratitude and you will experience bliss everywhere you go.
Please, always give genuine appreciation so that the person does not feel you are flattering him or her. Flattering is praising someone dishonestly, telling someone something he already knows. Give sincere, genuine and honest appreciation and you will attract greatness to you.
Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I may not forget you.- William Arthur
I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among men the greatest asset I possess. The way to develop the best that is in a man is by appreciation and encouragement. ~ Charles Schwab
The author is a creative writer, poet, self-motivated, God-fearing, social entrepreneur and a dynamic leader, who always communicate the idea of PEACE, the youth having a positive mental attitude and creating positive change in their communities. He believes, through our collective efforts we can make Africa (our motherland) and the world a better place.
Patrick Adjei Nketia,
email-poetinsmile@gmail.com
Phone:+233242661230
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