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I am an energetic,creative,bold,self-motivated,GOD-fearing and a young professional striving for excellence in leadership and business. He is having a passion for poetry and personal development. Also like to communicate the idea of PEACE and the youth having a positive mental attitude and creating positive change in their communities. He believes that, in our part of the world , if our leaders will do away with their self-seeking desires and crave for the betterment of their citizens, by free movement trade and people,eradicate war and hunger,ensure environmental sustainability, the world will be a better place to live. A firm handshake and may God bless us all in whatever we do. cheers.

Sunday, September 2, 2012

The Love For Our Nation Must Come First.



“Let our pupil be taught that he does not belong to himself but that he is a public property. Let him be taught to love his family, but let him be taught at the same time that he must forsake and even forget them when the welfare of his country requires it” – Benjamin Rush

There was an incident I encountered at the Taxis and buses station one evening. It was around 5pm, where normally most workers after work come and board cars to their various destinations.

This place is commonly characterized with long passenger queues waiting for their turn to onboard a vehicle which is heading to their destinations, hawkers selling, buses trooping in and out of the station. At this point, as some passengers acquire their need from the hawkers, they also take advantage and sell their wares to them.

I was in one of these long queues waiting patiently for a bus, when a young man infront of me just dropped an empty water sachet on the floor, immediately my conscience triggered me that it was not the right thing the man had done. I quickly suggested to the young man that, he should pick it because it was not right. He agreed and willing picked the sachet and added it to the things he was carrying. I thanked him for that gesture.

In some few minutes, a gentleman who was actually even well dressed than the guy infront of the man who picked the rubber just called a hawker who was selling water, bought one, drunk it and after threw the rubber on the floor. I questioned myself, ‘is this intentional?’ because, if he might not have seen what happened, he might have heard it.

I moved two steps forward and suggested this gentleman to pick the waste, he boldly turned and told me confidently that, “some people will come and sweep the premises so he was not picking the trash”. This was because a waste management company has been contracted by the government to clean various parts of the country.

I then picked the empty water sachet and held on to it. This situation let me understood that, this gentleman did not care about the multiple effect his action will have on other citizens and the nation as a whole - if the rubber was going to end up in a gutter by either wind or rain, it will cause stagnation of water, breed mosquitoes which cause malaria and also can even cause flooding, which can take other people’s lives and displace others, if there be many rubbers choking the gutters to prevent free drainage.

He didn’t think about it this way too: that it does not speak well of his country, if tourists visit this country and find out how filthy the country is, and what will be the effect of that on the country and many more.

If you have the sense of nationalism as a citizen you will behave otherwise.


I have also observed that, most of the politicians have lost their sense of nationalism. They first speak from their parochial interest, then their political stand and later the country. This shouldn’t have been so, for a politician, the interest of the welfare, wellbeing of the citizenry and the utmost development and progress of your country must be your prime aim and objective. But some of our politicians nowadays are blinded by greed, cheap propaganda to win cheap political scores and this makes them forget about their sole duty for which they were elected into office – to bring about development and better living conditions for the people.

I have also observed that, some party supporters and sympathizers most often cloud at party offices and demand money from these politicians instead of them edging the politicians to implement developmental projects in their communities. These politicians see this as a way of luring these people to vote them again into power. I ask the question that, “where do the politicians get the money all the time to satisfy these money-minded party supporters”?



It’s my prayer that the spirit of nationalism will rain in the hearts of the youth and especially the budding young leaders of this nation. Let the love of our country outweigh and surpass any other motive in your cause and doings, if we cultivate this, I believe strongly that, there will be a paradigm shift in the state of our country and its inhabitants.


“Every good citizen makes his country’s honor his own, and cherishes it not only as precious but as sacred. He is willing to risk his life in its defence and is conscious that he gains protection while he gives it”. ~ Andrew Jackson

“A man’s country is not a certain area of land, of mountains, rivers, and woods, but it is a principle: and partrotism is loyalty to that principle”. ~ George William Curtis

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

PERSONAL CREED (All Rights Reserved)


I will believe in GOD through CHRIST Jesus;

For everything is working together for my good,

I will always have a positive mental attitude,

I will smile and laugh to living creatures I meet,

I will always see something positive in every situation,

I will learn from mine and others mistakes,

I will be generous in my capacity to anyone who needs my help,

Be a lifelong learner,

Will inspire others to create positive change in their communities,

Be an active world citizen,

Give all back to my community through my service and contributions,

Always acknowledge GOD and everyone who contributes positively to my life.

by Patrick Adjei Nketia




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Monday, August 27, 2012

QUOTES by Patrick Adjei Nketia


MY QUOTES

1.      “Education is not a justification of better life but the dynamism of your personality”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia

2.      “Think deep to analyze and envisage the state of your life”. -  Patrick Adjei Nketia


3.      “Broken homes break the hearts of the children”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia

4.      “To try is better than to stay put”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia


5.      “The way you carry yourself reflects the way you think about yourself”. -  Patrick Adjei Nketia

6.      “It pays for one to be emotionally matured and mentally strong”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia


7.      “Nothing is better than generosity; never regret you did a favor”. -  Patrick Adjei Nketia

8.      “Brainstorming is the key to business startups”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia


99.      “Don’t mind the rubbish I write, but seek to understand the wisdom it connotes”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia

10.  “Speak and write who you want to become”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia


11.  “Things happen in my life which I have seen already”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia

12.  “Creative imagination begets invention whilst synthetic imagination begets innovation”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia

13.   “Appreciate others and you will also be appreciated”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia

14.  “Positive self talk builds a positive self image”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia


15.  “A man of prayer is a man with power”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia

16.  “Things happen in my life, which I have seen already”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia

17.  “I jump to the sky when you comment on my creative work” -  Patrick Adjei Nketia


18.  “We are royals to a heavenly king”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia

19.  “Move from your comfort zone to make strides, stay to regret in future”. -  Patrick Adjei Nketia


20.  “Ignorance and naivety is not an excuse, personal development is the key”- Patrick Adjei Nketia

21.  “Share happiness and you will receive it back”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia


22.  “I have a wide appetite for knowledge and wisdom, so I read to satisfy myself”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia

23.  “Life is not measured by wealth but by the grace of God”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia


24.  “Education must enhance an individual to think and progress for the greater better good of his people and their environs”.  - Patrick Adjei Nketia

25.  “Today is made for your good, smile and be grateful for it”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia


26.  “Upon becoming a good writer, one ought to read good books”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia

27.  “To become a great writer, one ought to be a great reader”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia


28.  “If you are willing to work, you are willing to succeed”. - Patrick Adjei Nketia

29.  “To have a definiteness of purpose is to operate at your extreme potentiality”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia


30.  “Do beyond expectation and you will be rewarded beyond expectation.”- Patrick Adjei Nketia

31.  “Depend on yourself and take actions and not on your government”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia


32.  “Admit self-responsibility in your failures and defeats”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia

33.  "Always build your credibility as a leader and your followers and other people will definitely buy into your ideas". ~ Patrick Adjei Nketia

34.  “Let prayer leap before you step” ~ Patrick Adjei Nketia


35.  “Through dreams and visions, God whispers into our soul”. ~Patrick Adjei Nketia.

36.  “Be a solution and not a pollution to your generation.”- Patrick Adjei Nketia


37.  “‎Don't look at the length of the script or the size of the book... just begin to READ." ~Patrick Adjei Nketia 

38.  “Do the uncommon to realize the uncommon.”~Patrick Adjei Nketia


39.  “Look not into the past with guilt, let your future be the remedy.”~Patrick Adjei Nketia

40.  "What do you stand for? I stand to create positive impact in the lives of people and my communities”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia


41.  "Am most grateful for this life and the pleasant people I harmonize and fraternize with"~ Patrick Adjei Nketia

42.  "It’s the meaning you give to the situations, I see something POSITIVE in every negative situation."~Patrick Adjei Nketia


43.  “Affirm your affirmations, be grateful for the day, laugh at yourself, smile to others, act with kindness and expect the POSITIVE”.~ Patrick Adjei Nketia

44.  “LIVE every moment to the fullest, make the BEST out of every minute, every hour, every day and every week. For when its spent it can't be retrieved.”~Patrick Adjei Nketia


45.  “Education is not intelligence”. – Patrick Adjei Nketia

46.  “Leaders are initiators and participators”. – Patrick Adjei Nketia


47.  “I don’t just look outside for the beauty but I look inside for the attitude”. – Patrick Adjei Nketia (27/7/12

48.  “We are on a journey with no timebound but we can’t afford to waste time”.- Patrick Adjei Nketia (24/7/12)


49.  “The seed decays before it geminates, endure tribulations and hard times so that you will appear refined and matured”- Patrick Adjei Nketia

50.  “Once you cannot sure of the happenings in the future, you need not to procrastinate your doings” – Patrick Adjei Nketia



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Thursday, August 9, 2012

3 Tips You Need To Know As A Young Woman.


Few days ago, I was with a colleague worker on the field checking up on some clients. It was a sunny morning between the hours of 10 to 11GMT, people were busily following up on their daily routines and others were trooping to their work places.

We meet a client (an accountant) at the car park of their premises, he was talking on phone. As we stood observing him to finish with the call, so we could begin with our mission at their edifice - this man who was in a well ironed pink shirt with a pink tie which had blue spots was holding a book.

I exhibited a gesture to have a glance at the book of which he easily gave out whilst on the phone. The book was entitled ‘What Makes Great men Great’ written by a coauthor of ‘Think and Grow Rich’ the black choice.

After his conversation on the phone, we exchanged pleasantries and talked at length about the relevance of books. I could tell he was happy with the subject matter and he expounded some worthwhile knowledge he had about books.

Some profound statements he made after we took seats at his office were, “books are the only things he does not budget before he buys and that, if he wants to communicate with the great leaders in the past and present, he does that through reading”.

We had a wonderful talk, discussed business matters and we left for our other duties. There were other interesting learning experiences we encountered in the course of executing our duties.

Later in the day, we came to relax at our usual spot to take a drink and discuss what transpired in the course of carrying out our duties. As I sipped on my drink, I remembered the incident with the accountant at his office. I busted out with a question to my colleague, what she had learnt today?

She snapped! What have I leaned today? Nothing of course!

My eyes widened whilst I gazed at her surprisingly. I said to myself, “maybe due to the work through the day, she might be tired and find it difficult to reminisce”.

I then helped by given a glimpse into the office of the accountant and suddenly she busted out “aahh”.

As we tend to grow and improve upon ourselves, I see women to be important and precious companions to men. Almost everyman will love a woman who speaks gracefully, be a supportive backbone, a woman with a teachable attitude (Always willing to learn), a cheerful, hardworking and prudent woman to chat this arduous life. I humbly suggest these 3 tips to every woman who desires to be in this ilk.

“If a dove associates with crows, its colour remain white but its heart grows black” - Proverb

ENGAGE IN MEANINGFUL DISCOURSES; this speaks of your associates, the people you spend most of your time with. It may be your boyfriend or other girlfriends, ask yourself if the discussions and issues you debate or employ among yourselves add value and help you to improve upon yourself to be a better person (have a change in attitude).

Let’s remember that, what we discuss and talk about most tends to have a deep influence on our minds and of which reflects in the states of our lives. Our minds are influenced by what we listen to, what we see and the way we feel. You will bear with me that; as you associate with the rich, you will grow rich and vice versa. Therefore, the situation and state we are in now are as a result of what these had on our minds.

Therefore, as you desire to have a responsible husband and live a wonderful life, be with people who share meaningful discourses and these will have effect on your mind and it will reflect in your life so as you desire.

MAKE TIME TO REFLECT; every day in and out, life provides us with worthwhile learning opportunities which appear to us in different shapes and forms. It will require us to mull over these lessons and understand their worthy wisdom, knowledge and experience they connotes.

In our quest to improve upon ourselves and our lives, life presents to us with these lessons to help us learn some virtues and morals such as: self confidence, persistence, courage, positive mentality etc. - to refine us. 
These morals and virtues will neither be taught in our schools nor in the universities.

Then the onus lies on us to take up the challenge and reflect on our daily encounters to figure out these moments and re-think their reason and purpose for happening. See the positive side of every incident and be empowered by it manifestation.

MAKE USE OF IT; I have seen some young women who made mistakes, although humans are bond to make mistakes but these women don’t learn from their mistakes but repeat them and continue to leave a mediocre life. I then ask myself why? Is it that they don’t realize it or they just don’t learn from their previous mistakes?
“We should regret our mistakes and learn from them, but never carry them forward into the future with us.” ― L.M. Montgomery

I will edge young women to make critical use of these learning opportunities; learning from yours and others mistakes, making time with elderly people and you will be amazed at the enlightenment that will be shared with you. You will acquire knowledge that might have taken you years to gain in a matter of minutes.

What is the essence if you have knowledge, experience, wisdom and you don’t make use of them? Let’s make it a habit to engage in meaningful discourses, reflect and ponder about situations, challenges and circumstances that come our way by seeing the positive side of every situation and make use of the latent learning opportunities that unfold during our daily lives - for as we apply these; they enhance our growth, maturity, refinement and our quest towards perfection for a better and richer life.

A million thanks for your time shared with me and I believe it will worth it as you practice what you have read here! Cheers and let’s keep in touch.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

He Was Declared DEAD Prior To His Actual Death; President Of The Republic Of Ghana.



I had returned from a wonderful learning working hours to the office, where a friend who had his workplace near the headquarters of the National Democratic Congress (NDC, the ruling party) in Accra, phoned me that the President of the country is dead.

With extreme astonishment, I exhibited my skeptical attitude towards the information from my friend. I then told her, she was not lying but I would like to enquire from other sources to confirm.

Immediately, I run to the washroom. After urinating and I was about to wash my hands, I heard my phone vibrating and it was my elder sister Sharon calling. I picked it and in a hesitant voice, she told me that, “the President was dead and I should be careful on my way back home”.

I rushed to the common room to inform my colleagues about the confirmation from my sister. Immediately, another colleague called her dad and it was confirmed again.

Instantly, the mood of my colleagues and mine were changed.

The radio was switched on and all we heard was the presenter reiterating the sadden death of H.E. the President of Ghana, John Evans Atta Mills (1944-2012).

The late President celebrated his birthday 3days ago (21/07/12), returned from a medical check-up 2 weeks ago, 5 months to elections for him to complete his first term of office and the inevitable death angel came knocking on his door today, 24th July, 2012 around 14 – 15 hours GMT at the 37 Military HospitaloHosH.

The late H.E. President J. E. Atta Mills was defeated two consecutive times in his quest of becoming the 3rd President of the 4th republic, but won on the third account and was sworn into office on 7th January, 2009.

He was a professor of law, a lecturer for 25 years, a sportsman, a tax expert, a scholar, a peace ambassador and a true leader, who had the welfare and concerns of his citizens at heart.

The country is really left in state of anguish and mourning for a big tree has indeed fallen. Every citizen is sympathizing and you could read from every citizen’s mood that, when the leader of a nation and an institution is absent, it leaves the followers disheartened, perplexed and uncomforted.

This is a gargantuan and unprecedented loss to the nation of Ghana. It’s historic in Ghana’s history for a sitting President to depart from the land of the living.

It is also sad and pathetic to hear some citizens making partisan remarks concerning the death of the president. He was even pronounced dead prior to his actual death, this was when he went out on a routine check up in the United States about 2 weeks ago. This man has received a whole lot of accusations, nonconstructive criticisms, mockery and negative pronouncements from the citizenry and other astute personalities in the country.

No matter which kind of person you are on this land called earth, you will not live forever, so let’s always appreciate the fact that it not by our might but the grace. This is indeed a blow to me at this time of my life. We pray that may his soul find a peaceful rest.

And to we Ghanaians, this wake up call, for the sense of nationalism and patriotism to rain in our hearts and sink into our souls. Lets now think GHANA FIRST and any other thing last.

I take this opportunity to extend my deepest condolences to the family of the late H.E. John Evans Fiifi Atta Mills. We share the grief with you, our mother of the nation, Ernestina Naadu Mills. Be consoled and be strong, we can’t understand, for there is a divine interpretation. DAMARIFA DUE Atta Mills!!

 May bless the newly sworn in President H.E John Mahama May God bless mother Ghana. Amen!

Thank you!


Saturday, June 30, 2012

How Do You Give A Handshake? Do You Know What It Can Mean?


Sometime in my final days in the university, I was fascinated by the wisdom expounded by a speaker who was a lecturer back then at a church gathering. I felt intrigued to get closer to this adroit man and express a word of appreciation for the knowledge he shared with us.  I forced my way through the crowd and finally entered the zone of this gray-haired man. He was attentively addressing some concerns from other participants, so I waited for a moment.  As he finished with them, I went closer with a smile and my hand stretched. Immediately he reciprocated with a smile and held my palm with a firm grip (not crushing). I told him, “I was thrilled by his message and that I’ve leant a lot from it.”

The crux of this moment that I want to emphasize is that, I had a pre-knowledge about handshake depicting your personality through a non-verbal communication pdf book I read. So this lecturer replicating this gesture confirmed it in my thoughts and upon subsequent meetings with other business associates intensified the belief for this truism in this approach.

Handshaking has been with us since time in memorial. Handshaking exhibited that am not armed or with no weapon. Handshake can also express trust, honesty and a symbol of peace. Handshake in other parts of the world signifies sealing of a business deal. Nowadays it is done upon a first meeting and a departure.

The dead fish is a type of handshake, where one of the people’s hands is cold or dank. This makes the handshaking uninviting and speaks of a weak character to the one with the soft and placid gesture.

The glove or politicians handshake is often exhibited by politicians. The initiator covers the others hand with his other hand during the handshake. This demonstrates trust and honesty, exhibited to a newly met person speaks otherwise.

The cover hand also from the initiator signifies the level or intensity of sincerity and trust when placed at the elbow or at the shoulder level of the other person. This is perfect when the people are close relatives or friends.

The knuckle grinder is when the initiator is crushing your hand; it’s normally from people with aggressive character.

The finger-tip grip is when the initiator doesn’t get the full arm or palm but the thrust falls on the finger tips of the receiver. This speaks of lack of confidence in the initiator himself.

Handshake sends a distinct message from both parties. Handshake shows your character or personality and that ladies are not an exception. The best is to thrust your palm interlock with the person’s hand and offer a firm grip but not crushing. It will worth it if you can practice with a friend and listen to his/her comment. Let your handshake speak for you because actions speak louder than words.

Many thanks for your time and until we meet again here; keep winning. 

Thursday, June 28, 2012

5 REASONS TO AVOID OR STOP SMOKING MARIJUANA OR CANNABIS.


Marijuana, a versatile plant which has been with us since time in memorial and has also served many useful purposes like for medicinal functions; it fiber is used to make ropes, sacks and other useful materials.

 There are myths about the smoking of this plant “marijuana” or cannabis and some of these are; can help a student to study well, to open the mind of the smoker to be wise, to harden or make the smoker bold or courageous and when smoked, can send you to another state or world. I can say point blank that there is no truism in the above and any others that you might have heard.

As this stimulant drug has some good attributes, it also has some serious demerits. In my part of the world, I have seen and known that, many of the youth have fallen into the ill-usage of this plant. There is even an adage that goes “too much of everything is bad”.

What disheartens me the most is that, these people are between the ages of 15-28 and there is no doubt that these are the future leaders of our countries - who have acquainted themselves with this dream killer. It will interest you to know that, these youth who engage in the ill-usage and abuse of this stimulant are talented and gifted people. If they are able to stop this addiction, they unfold into astounding personalities in their communities and the world at large.


In my part of the world, the first thing that will be associated with a marijuana smoker is that he/she is going to get mad or the person is worthless or aimless. I personally do not side with this belief but since the majority of the people had believed and said it with their powerful mouths, as well as, expecting it to be so and some smokers have reflected in that light, it tends to be something else-of which will have a deeper meaning.



These are what I have experienced and observed about marijuana and I would like share to with you my reader.
  • Lost of help; as we all grow, at times before we can stand on our feet, it will take the support from our parents and other relatives. But as soon as our parents and our relatives got to know that one has started smoking, they tend to lose hope and begin to perceive that this person is going to be a worthless and aimless being in the society. Who does not require or deserve any good thing or support. As a result of this, the smoker now has to find other ways and means to make ends meet. This makes him now join other smokers in the same ilk to indulge in social vices to make a living.
  •  Tagged as a black sheep; when a person starts to smoke, definitely his attitude begins to change. There is a proverb that, “birds of the same feathers, fly together”, he now begins to move with other smokers and all they do is to go to the “Ghetto” (Where smokers meet to shares ideas and smoke the herb). Since this drug is illegal, the police also come in to arrest them because of the social vices some of them are engaged in. Which at times is pathetic and humiliating as to the way they are treated when caught – this attracts attention from the community to the smoker and this brings disgrace in the highest order to the smoker himself and the family he represents, making him been tagged as a black sheep in the community. 
  •  The Spirit of fear; Since they are aware of the bad act they are engaged in, they are full of fear whenever they are in the ghetto or wherever they find themselves smoking. After they have even finished, some even are engulfed in fear and that makes them not to even come closer to other people, so they are mainly found in their own corner or with their counterparts. Mostly, they also don’t want others to know about this humiliating act they have entangled their self with, so then, I ask you my reader, and what state are they in? The Holy book says, “He did not give us the spirit of fear but of love and of sound mind”.
  •   Respiratory and other forms of sickness; aside these physical faults smoking marijuana or cannabis causes serious respiratory problems to the smoker. The chronic usage can even cause cancer. This stimulant also dehydrates the smoker and he grows thin and never gets a fresh skin.
  •    Loss of focus; I witnessed some smokers who had wonderful ideas to progress their life but as at now, they are as what they were last five years. Some have even upgraded to to the abuse of cocaine and their future and their lives are in a mess. What are you using your precious talent for? What are you going to be remembered for?


You are in this world for a particular and peculiar purpose-don’t allow yourself to be blinded and lured into a state of regret and misery. You have a critical role to play in someone’s life and the development of your family, your country and the world at large. “When an alligator comes out of the pond to tell you that the crocodile is dead, you don’t doubt it” – African Proverb
Until when are you still going to be a slave to this dream killer? Rise up and Wise up!!! Cheers and let’s keep in touch.